Dilemma with my life

[uenop1]

Thx for the answers!
Yep I have a debt that I'm paying every month, but‌ it's way less than 150k at the end
It's not affecting my life/business

Will try‍ to push my business to the next level to have enough money to help my⁠ family without worrying about this type of questions

 

[Martin Everson]

Best solution thu&¤#

 

[alistera]

You setup a family office.

 

[JimBeam]

Let me brace you a bit:

You're doing your best!
Helping your mother and your‌ sister as much as you can.

If you can (as someone advised here) pay her‍ bills (mortgage, fixed utility bills etc) so she has one worry less.
Grow your business⁠ and focus on that. Maybe one day you can retire her earlier or move her⁤ and sister with you to Dubai or something.
For now - you're doing your best⁣ and it's all fine. You're just away so you have a fear of missing on⁢ some family things.

 

[alistera]

The problem is people don't like handouts and especially the older generation will do anything‌ to avoid it, we had to do things like buy new fridge for birthday (I‍ know), shopping spree when on holiday as a special treat, let me elaborate on why⁠ a family office even via an Ajman or RAK.

When you set up a family⁤ office you disburse profits out to family members, most people do not associate capital returns⁣ as income, so when there is a dispersal you bypass many of the objections with⁢ a simple, but it's for future generations and we're benefiting from it today, not including︀ siblings taking a dim view showing them up, had this with multi-millionaires in the family︁ because they were too busy, it is what it is.