I wonder if you took out money from your PayPal, straight to your Romanian (RON)︆ bank account. If you did, it's no wonder they found out about it as all︇ RON and Romanian bank accounts are completely visible to ANAF ( RO tax office).
In any case, I agree dodging them is not a viable long-term strategy. Moving is. I︈ think Cyprus is not a bad alternative within the EU, but we'll see, there are︉ some nice alternatives outside of the EU as others mentioned as well.
About Andrew Tate︊ and his statement that in Romania corruption is accessible to everyone: Not to say Romania︋ is some corruption-free place, that would be ridiculous, but you certainly can't just flash a︌ bit of money around and do whatever you want as this guy thought. Very foolish︍ or at least naive guy to think that, when people with real wealth and power︎ (prime ministers, billionaires) like Adrian Nastase, Dan Voiculescu, Copos, etc did jail time.
I mean, it's kind-of tough to get excited about getting "just a little" robbed (1/8 of everything you make) and getting diddly-squat in return.
In any case, the current rate of robbery is insufficient according to OECD and IMF's recommendations to Romania, so it's gonna go up in 2025.