Hello friends, I am busy with my business, so it takes some time for me to respond to you here or to follow up on the threads.
I sell SAAS - that is, software that people pay to use, which is categorized as high risk by all payment processors because it is sold alongside Blackhat tools.
Nonetheless, we are integrating with Instabill and Verotel, which exceptionally allow us to operate with them for a higher fee. We do not expect Nochex to significantly increase sales, but we are including it as a trial. Fibonatix referred us to some payment processor that they wouldn't disclose; we paid them 500 euros for it, but even the API documentation is blank for names! We are not proceeding with them.
Now I have made contact with someone from the forum who referred us to Arkpay. See below; they seem to be what we are looking for, and if we get approved there, we will go with them as well.
https://arkpay.com/
I will update here as we progress. JohnLocke referred me to eMerchantPay, which they used at one point. They have also approved us, and you can find them in the resource database if you can't find them via Google. They seem very professional and respond quickly.